適合走下去的人

心理學家認為..判斷男女兩個人是否適合牽手..應考慮以下10個因素..………
第一..彼此都是對方的好朋友..不帶任何條件..喜歡與對方在一起..
第二..彼此很容易溝通..互相可以很敞開地坦白任何事情..而不必擔心被對方懷疑或輕視..
第三..兩人在心靈上有共同的理念和價值觀..並且對這些觀念有清楚的認識與追求..
第四..雙方都認為婚姻是一輩子的事..而且雙方都堅定地願意委身在這個長期的婚姻關係中..
第五..當發生衝突或爭執的時候可以一起來解決..而不是等以後來發作..
第六..相處可以彼此逗趣..常有歡笑..在生活中許多方面都會以幽默相待..
第七..彼此非常瞭解..並且接納對方..

當知道對方瞭解了自己的優點和缺點後..仍然確信被他所接納..
第八..從最瞭解你..也是你最信任的對方處得到支持的肯定..
第九..有時會有浪漫的感情..但絕大多數的時候..你們的相處是非常滿足而且是自由自在的..
第十..有一個非常理性和成熟的交往..並且雙方都能感受到..
在許多不同的層面上你們是很相配的..

愛情是追到手的嗎？
不是..真正的感情根本不需要追的..
兩個人的默契..在慢慢將兩顆心的距離縮短..在無意識中漸漸靠近彼此..
從好朋友到情人..真正的感情是用不了多久的..
從妳喜歡上他的那一刻起..也許他也在那一刻喜歡上了妳..
同節奏的愛情往往能奏出最和諧最動聽的樂章..


真正的愛情需要什麼？
需要兩個人在一起是輕鬆快樂的..沒有壓力..


愛一個人就是毫無保留地付出嗎？
不是..每一個人都是一個獨立的人..
我們首先是屬於自己的..我們有思想..我們有個性..而不是把我們的全部都給對方..
我們可以有保留..比如妳不願意說的隱私..有秘密的人才是成熟的..不是嗎？
有時候不說出來反而更好..


外貌和個性哪個更重要？
男人年輕的時候往往喜歡漂亮的女子..
30歲以後..會選擇和自己性格合適的女子..能和自己一起過日子的人..


現實和浪漫哪個更重要？
現實..沒有現實為基礎..浪漫就是空中樓閣..
大學校園的愛情往往隨著畢業而告終..大多是因為不現實..
不在一個城市..只有相互欣賞相互佩服各有所長的人..才會碰撞出最美麗的火花..
也才會結出最甜美的愛情果實..


分手後我們還可以做朋友嗎？
最好不要..剪不斷..理還亂..過去了就過去了..
我們不是生活在過去..而是現在..愛情不等於生活..只是生活的一部分..


浪漫是什麼？
是送花？雨中漫步？樓前佇立不去？如果兩人彼此傾心相愛..什麼事都不做..靜靜相對都會感覺是浪漫的..否則..即使兩人坐到月亮上拍拖..也是感覺不到浪漫的..

所以請記住..
喝酒不要超過六分醉..
吃飯不要超過七分飽..
愛一個人不要超過八分

PS: birthday wishes and celebration

I was expecting something at saturday, my birthday. Actually I was expecting a girl to give me the surprise and she did it. She sent me the longest and sweetest birthday wishes with many loves.

I celebrate with brothers after I finish all my italian dishes and finish cleaning. I am tired actually but I knew they prepared something for me. So I just followed.
Although they idea is really old and in my expectation, but Suprisingly they give me my favorite cake as my birthday cake.. OMG!! I had never told anybody I want it and I love it. But they just did it.. Black forest cake.. I am so touch, but so bad I am not good in express myself.. they expect my tears but Its not easily get it..

Thanks my brothers, Teddy, Gino, Brandon, Michael, Ayumi, Mable, Kelvin and Yan Bo.. Alexa too..
I didn't make any wishes this year.. I am not believe in this now a day but I gave all my wishes to everyone.

I wish them live with Happiness, no matter they are poor or rich. I wish them live with Healthiest life, never fall sick, because I don't wanna see their suffering face. I wish them live with Courages, be brave to solve all the problems, arguements, and troubles.

I gave her a small little wish which is get a nice guy, and I hope that that is me.
I wish myself with same 3 wishes for my friends and add-on 1 thing. Live with wealthness, may all my partners be creative in marketing, serving customer, designing a new t-shirt, and I wish to get her by this year. Good night all readers

My self prepared birthday night

I had a wonderful saturday night, my birthday night.
Honestly I have no expect anything happen in my birthday and I was used to it.
Celebrate myself or with my brother. He bake the cake and I prepare the dishes.

I get 200++ birthday wishes in Facebook, and included lecturer wishes.
That was amazing and It never happen in my previous birthday. I get shocked when I see it.

I am doing italian food this year, Lasagna, mushroom soup, garlic bread, and my brother baked me an American Cheese cake. That was so delicious~ mm~ Yummy!!

I spent nearly 100 to prepare all these ingredient and at the end it taste nice~ but salty :D
But I only used around 30% ingredient, I think I will do it again recently .

My 1st Lasagna ingredient, smoked sausage, yellow onion, garlic and chicken breast.. I prepared it with full of my heart <3..

This is what it looks like after I prepared the 1st testing set, I almost used half of it.. Gosh!!! I am so genius and place in a think base and at the end it just can fit in 1 layer.. My brother's girlfriend used the rest to bake another set with 3 layers.. !! >< Sia sui!!

The most expensice ingredient, Cheese!! Parmasen and Mozzarella Cheese..worth 30 ringgits here.. each pack 15 ringgits and I bought 4 packs.. just for 1 dinner I had already spent 40 ringgits !! Brilliant consumer :D

I 1st time choose tomatoes, and I chose the big round and juicy Tomatoes :D 

1kg 3 ringgits.. here only 2 biji nia.. I am so pandai and actually I was expecting the tomatoes look like the chopping block colour. XD

my birthday night beverage.. I finished whole bottle..wow~ 

end up, I get scold ><

this is it.. the lasagna and garlic bread with fresh french toast :D  

Yummy~~ 

This is all about my self preparation birthday night. I gave myself the biggest and the sweetiest present this year 2011.. I am Officiall step in to 20 now!! Hurayy!!

我期待

期待，今年的真的会有期待。

期待，期待有个人，或一群人。

期待着某某东西。

先卖个关子。过了今晚，再说。